Ok, maybe there is a place for “Rules, Adages, or Guidelines” (Read my last post first).
Some from the book that I like:
Buy anything you want at the grocery store; cooking is always cheaper than eating out.
Start where you are (an essential part of the Law of Attraction).
Talk to strangers.
Be polite and fair.
By doing a little bit each day, you can get a lot accomplished, and What you do every day matters more than what you do once in awhile.
First things first. Definitely. It’s all about getting priorities straight. Drinking enough water is critical to having enough energy to finish the project you blaze into, and eating before you blood sugar dives is crucial to having a mood that permits politeness and forgiveness. Similarly, like “the cook eats first”, one has to take care of oneself before being capable of going out in the world and giving. You must be replete to be generous (therefore taking care to “fill the tank” is essentially unselfish).
If it takes less than a minute to put away, or do it right, do it now. My corollary: If it’s almost as fast to do it as it is to write it on a list, just do it.
Things that make you happy don’t always feel happy. Damn skippy. Challenging and threatening things that make you feel nauseous in the doing can the most rewarding to have done. To wit: marathons.
Here’s a few all my own:
If a system doesn’t function, change the system. My husband gives me fantastic feedback on whether a system works (like, where things belong). If it works, he puts things back where they “go”, because that’s the easiest, obvious place to put them. If the system doesn’t work, he finds someplace else to drop them that displeases me, and I know my so-clever system isn’t functional and needs to be adapted. You can’t force people to fit a system; only the system can be changed. Whole design industries have grown out of this.